Best Friend

Describe how you met your best friend.

I am not a really good initiator. The moment I meet new people, I start to doubt their abilities; this is probably the most awkward moment. Those people, too, doubt my abilities so we started arguing. Though, those people, somehow, turned out to be my close friends and one of them is my best friend. I argued with a lot of people just because we have different ways of thinking and we never tried to understand each other. It takes time for me to get used to new people, to let it go, to let my ego down. After months of pointless arguments, I started to learn to be carefree, to stop taking everything seriously and to take things as jokes. I started understanding the meaning of the word humor so I became friends with new people and with my best friend.

Service

Community service can be a valuable part of the college experience. If you were to devote one year of service to a volunteer project, what would it be, and what would you hope to accomplish? (Goucher)

If I were able to do a volunteer project for one year, it would actually take me long to consider. I will have to think about the obstacles first so that I would be able to determine if I were able to do it or not. Maybe teaching the unfortunate? I am not even sure if I am able to teach the things that I know due to the communication problems; I am not able to explain how I understand things because I maybe speak too fast or think differently from other people. What about building? I would build if I have enough budgets to do so. However, the structures that I build would not be places to live because then the place needs someone to take over to pay for electricity and water. It may be a library that has clear ceiling then the sunlight will give brightness during the day, but the place has to be closed at night. The best way out is to clean up a landfill and separate the trash. The recyclable part of the trash such as plastic bottles, plastic bags, and glass could be sold to recycling factories and the money that is made will be donated to the local school to buy computers or lunch or new books or utensils if the money made is not enough. The biodegradable part of the trash will be buried. I hope to leave behind a clean community and a better level of learning or living standard for the students in the area.

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Ten simple rules for dating me.

1. You need to be able to communicate with me with no problem. 

2. You shouldn’t be too good looking because someone else will be looking at you; however, 

3. you need to be attractive. 

4. You need to be able to listen to my infinite problems and 

5. you have to be totally open with me, tell me the problems that are bothering you. 

6. You have to somehow be able to pull my attention and 

7. dissolve my sadness and stress. 

8. You need to have time for me. 

9. You need to go do your things and make me believe that I am not holding you back from something. 

10. You need to be understanding even though it is hard for you to understand me

The most important rule is the last rule, the understanding one because I am not a good speaker; I can only show you, but not speaking things out loud.

Ask

If you could go back and change one day in your life, what would you change and why? (Santa Clara University)

If I could go back in time and change a day in my life, I would go back to the day that I had a dance with a girl whom I have the affection for. It was not long since I started liking this person, but I like her a lot anyway. I really enjoyed that day, I would say that it was one of the few days in my life that I feel extremely happy and smiled a lot. I thought it went well, but I did not do what I wanted to do because I just felt that I would hear something I did not want to hear. After that day, things between me and that person get really awkward, though I did not know how. If I could change something that night, I would ask her if she wants to out with me or not.

I would have changed many things. First of all, I would not be feeling the way I am feeling right now; I feel like a mess and an extremely dumb person because I did not take my chance. I would not be doing a lot of thinking about it like what I do now; every time there is a silent moment, long or short, I would start thinking about it and lose concentration on what I am doing at the moment. I would not have any if-questions because those if-questions started from the answer that I will get and how I would feel after hearing the answer and so on.